Women's Day 2021
It’s less about ego, more about collaboration say leading female executives
Bringing their own unique, less competitive, and more empathetic mindset to their careers, many women are entering high tech and senior management positions than ever before
Etel Behar, former organizational consultant and VP of the Ben Horin & Alexandrovitz firm thinks that underneath the surface, trends run deeper and are rooted in psychology. In Israel, men learn managerial skills from their mandatory military service as commanders and leaders, she explained. Many of those who served in command roles, later on move to companies where they fill similar positions.
“Men shape this concept of hierarchy in leadership, believe that no task is impossible, and are ready to take on risks. While this is helpful, I don’t think that the military teaches men enough empathy or dialogue. Female management attempts to understand what the customer needs, its feelings on a certain topic, and requires empathy and understanding. Female intuition can lead to better product differentiation, which has eroded severely in businesses. Oftentimes, women are more willing to put aside their ego and listen,” Behar explained.
In addition, she believes that millennials are a good example of this, as they are less concerned with filling gender-specific roles, and more concerned with a company’s success than with preconceptions. “I think that high tech management can adopt its own unique feminine style that is more in tune with these values,” she said. Female management has its strong points Female management clearly has its strong points, and Limor Ben David, co-founder and co-CEO of Nogamy, a company that operates in the big data industry is one such example. “We’re seeing more and more women assume senior executive positions in the high tech industry,” she said. As for attempting to change the mostly-male oriented demographic, Nogamy has 75% women and 25% men on her team. “My male co-founder and I both understood that gender isn’t an obstacle, but there is a simple preference of men over women in these fields.” Nogamy incorporates flexibility in its work hours, and has new mothers stay late only two days a week. It also allows its employees to work from home, provides them with laptops with remote connectivity, trains new employees from home, and during the pandemic began transitioning most of its in-person meetings to a Zoom format. As for what the government can do to encourage women to enter these fields, she relayed her own upbringing of enrolling in the Marom track of the Israeli Air Force which trains soldiers in computing systems. While the Israeli government practices a policy of Affirmative Action, this doesn’t always make women feel accepted or appreciated, she noted, as they are hired based on their gender and not on their achievements, ability, or high intelligence. She believes the military can start by helping steer women to more technical positions, where they can gain the skills they need to enter the private sector. “We don’t want to focus on percentages, rather on encouragement,” she said. “Women who want to work and are talented can get very far,” she said, “and I think that the most important thing for young mothers and young women is to have a support system, whether that be parents, a partner, or friends.” She elaborated that women’s feelings of being excluded or unwelcomed by this sector may stem from macho mentalities in the workplace, which may intimidate some women. “In companies with more diversity, there’s a different dynamic, there’s open discourse and less ego. There’s this concept in academia, the military, high tech, and just about everywhere else that in order to be the ‘best,’ women have to try to imitate men. However, I don’t think that’s the correct approach. Women can use their own way of getting things done by encouraging civility and collaboration.” As for the existing gender pay gap, Ben David believes it emanates from female‘s tendency to compromise. “I think in general women are less aggressive and don’t necessarily demand higher salaries, and may feel second-rate to male colleagues. Just because we are gentler, and don’t define ourselves by money, certainly doesn’t mean we should earn less. That needs to change.” Lastly, she noted that female management has its strong points when combating crises. “I think because we are less concerned with ego, when a crisis hits we know to analyze a situation, and work together to formulate a solution with less blame involved. It’s all about moving forward.”